Third Ward Youth that went on the Retreat
The view from the parking lot
The bishop and his lovely wife on the hike
"we hid ourselves in the cavity of a rock"
Hiking around Grassi Lake
The group at the trailhead
Brother Jenson had a great feast prepared for us
Make your own sandwiches
The youth frolicked in the forest playing Frisbee golf
More frisbee golf
The ride home - we went in a 12 passenger van. It made the bishop's wife a bit teary because it reminder her of the 15 passenger van we used to drive. (Can you find Judy in this picture?)
The Bishop talked about tender mercies (1 Nephi 1:20) and shared about when he was a young missionary in Japan.
Takahashi Choro on his bike (1980)
Although I look like I should speak Japanese before my mission all I knew were a few Japanese food terms like sushi and shoyu. Even after 2 months in the LTM (Language Training Mission) when I got to Japan it took me 2 weeks before I could even recognize my name. My first companion in Japan was a young Japanese elder who didn't speak much English. It was a challenge for me. I often didn't know what we were doing until we did it or where we were going until we got there. One day in my first week in Japan I followed my companion on a 45 minute bike ride to teach a man a lesson. As soon as we got on our bikes to return home it started to rain - and I mean it really came down. As I rode home I remember feeling cold, wet, homesick, lonely and discouraged and I wanted nothing more than to go home. I didn't feel that this was what I had signed up for. But the Lord knew of me and my feelings. That first Sunday in Church I met a sister in in the branch that spoke English. We chatted in English and she asked about my family. Turns out that I had a picture of my family that I carried with me in my White Missionary Handbook. I showed it to her and she looked at it. She pointed to my mom and said - "I know this lady!" I said that it was probably someone who looked like here because my mom had never been to Japan and this sister had never been in Canada. But she was sure that she had talked to my mom. She started describing her and said things like "She's very friendly" and "she likes to talk". Sounded like my mom. As we talked more it turns out she was in Utah visiting some friends and was touring the LTM in Provo the same day my parents dropped me off. After we said our goodbyes and the missionaries go out one door and the families go out another door, my mom was waiting in front of a big map of the world in the main hallway. This sister was also standing there and they started talking. Apparently they chatted for some time. And it turns out that this sister was the first member of the Church (other than missionaries) that I met as a young, homesick missionary in Japan. I truly consider this a tender mercy of the Lord because He knew that I would be lonely and discouraged. My family wouldn't be there, but He arranged that my mom and this sister would meet so that when I got to Japan this sister would be there to encourage me by telling me how my mom felt about her son going on a mission to Japan. I felt much better after that.
I told the youth that they they may all experience those times of discouragement, loneliness, etc, but the Lord will show them tender mercies to help them through these challenging times.









